Feelings, Random Thoughts

How to be a strong woman

How can you be a strong woman today?  Strength comes from being kind when you really want to be ugly.  Strength comes from recognizing that we are all different.  Differences make us all special, embrace that and encourage each other to be themselves.  Strength comes from encouraging others.  Strength comes from honoring other’s opinions.  Never belittling someone for having different opinions.

Women have  shocked me these days.  I have heard women belittle others for not breastfeeding or having natural child births.  I have actually been called a gender traitor because I am a Republican.  I have been called ignorant because I have a beautiful southern accent.  Let’s not be these kinds of women.  Let’s be better than that.  My mamma always said, “if you can’t say something nice, then don’t say anything at all”.

We should be respectful of all people, especially woman.  Woman have it hard.  So many expect us to be perfect, yet in our busy lives of raising children, we simply have to do the best we can.  Life is hard, for everyone.  Why does it matter what we wear, what size we are, what we eat, or what we believe?  I am glad we aren’t all the same.  There are lots of ways to do things.  That is what makes this world exciting.

If you are reading this, strive this week to be more understanding of everyone.  If someone is spouting negativity, just smile.  If someone is hurtful, then pray for that person.  Find the good in everyone,  be strong.  Set the example.  Put everything else aside, and just be you!  We never know what people are going through, so just be patient.  We all need a little kindness!   Be the one that gives it out freely!  Be strong!  Be a strong woman!


Random Thoughts

Labor Day 2018

Just a few facts about Labor Day.  Did you know that the first Labor Day was celebrated in New York City back in 1882?  Back then, Americans worked 12 hours a day, seven days a week.   10,000 people paraded through New York City that year to demand higher wages and less work hours.  They peacefully marched from City Hall to a giant picnic in the park.  Many of these folks risked losing their jobs by taking the day off to protest the long work days, but they were hoping for a better life for themselves and their families.

In 1894, years following this first protest, Labor Day was made a national holiday!  Today it is a day for most people to rest.  It is always on a Monday, and therefore a long weekend is what marks this great day.  It is known now as Labor Day Weekend!

How did you spend your Labor Day weekend??  My husband and I labored or course!  We washed our cars, and our fifth wheel.  We also relaxed and watched movies on Netflix.  It was an extra day that I got to spend with my husband, who is usually working on most Mondays.  I will take a 3 day holiday anytime, but the next one probably won’t come until November.  I hope you all had a great long weekend!

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Recycle Metal

Most recycling places accept metal cans for recycling.  Soda cans, food cans, coffee cans.   All you have to do is clean out any food debris and place it in your recycle bin.

Unfortunately aluminum foil and food trays can’t be recycled.  So one way to eliminate this waste is to store all your left overs in glass or plastic containers that you can reuse.  Only use aluminum foil when you absolutely have to.  For grilling you can use a flat pan instead of foil.  That way, no waste!

There are rumors that removing the tabs from soda cans will collect you more money at the recycling centers, but it isn’t true.  The tabs are made from the same metal as the can.  Some charities like Ronald McDonald house and the Shriners Hospital for children do take tab donations, but it doesn’t fetch them any more money than the whole can would.   A million can tabs has a recycle value of about $366 dollars in the US.  To me, it’s better to just recycle the whole can.  No worries about separating the tabs or anything.

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Recycle Shopping Bags

You can’t recycle shopping bags!   You can reuse them, like bagging poop diapers or other stinky items for the trash, but they can’t be recycled.  What a shame!   So what are we to do??   We could choose paper bags at the market, or better yet only use the reusable bags.  They cost but once bought, you can reuse them forever!  (or at least until they wear out) .

As a consumer, we need to say no to items that can’t be recycled.  Eliminate the waste totally!  Most beaches have already banned them on our beaches!  By September 1, I pledge to only use reusable bags!  I can’t wait to get me some cute ones, and start using them!!   Get yours and start using them.  Why continue to use plastic shopping bags when they can’t be recycled??


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Recycle Glass


Here is how to recycle all your glass.  Glass can be recycled over and over!  This is awesome.  There should never be any glass in our landfills!  One way I help in this area is to reuse what glass I can.  I buy jelly that comes in these cute jars, they are perfect drinking cups after the jelly is gone.  Here is the jelly I buy, it comes in all different flavors and uses only fruit, sugar and pectin.  You can’t beat it!! 313633-75x75-A

You can recycle glass jars, bottles, or anything else that is glass.   Examples are wine bottles, food jars, and alcoholic beverage bottles.

With glass, you don’t have to remove the caps or the labels.  Just clean out the bottle or jar and put it in your recycle bin.  Easy peasy!!!

One thing that can’t be recycled is light bulbs!  Or at least in Charleston they can’t.  Always check with your local recycle center for specific questions!

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What plastic can be recycled

Plastic Bottles & Containers

Here is a list of what plastics can be recycled.  My first rule is to eliminate all waste first, so if you can use a water filter do that to cut down on plastic bottles.  Make your own cleaners and reuse your old bottles over and over.  Use a kcup filter that used ground coffee.  No waste is always best, but if you do have plastics, recycle them.

  • Water bottles
  • Soda bottles
  • Milk jugs
  • Liquid containers
  • Jars and tubs (yogurt, margarine tubs, etc.)
  • Detergent and all-purpose cleaner bottles
  • Soap and shampoo bottles
  • Rigid plastic product packaging, such as clean rigid clamshell containers (Remove any plastic film or aluminum)
  • Plastic cups
  • Kcups- remove the foil top, coffee and filter inside cup.  The plastic cup can be recycled

Make sure to remove labels from containers, remove caps, and clean them out.


Keep the following items out of your recycling cart:

  • Plastic bags (i.e. shopping bags, cereal bags, trash bags)
  • Plastic wrap (i.e. thin plastic food wrap or shrink wrapping/product packaging)
  • styrofoam packaging or food containers
  • household garbage
  • shredded paper
  • food waste
  • yard waste
  • cartons (i.e. juice boxes, chicken broth cartons)
  • bulky plastic items (i.e. toys, hangers)
  • batteries
  • light bulbs
  • electronics
  • clothing and shoes
  • construction debris (i.e. wood, insulation)
  • rope-like items (i.e. garden hoses)
  • medical waste (i.e. syringes)
  • diapers or sanitary products
  • propane tanks
  • aluminum foil and trays
  • motor oil and cooking oil
  • paint